I feel there is no point in holding something a person believes against them.
It is not the holding it against them that is the problem! It is telling them categorically and frequently that they are talking rubbish, that they are categorically wrong to believe what they do, that they are going to Hell for refusding to bel;ieve what YOU believe.
You Sass are one of the reasons that, having taken a break, I am leaving, because you never discuss - you never give any other reason why someone who does not believe like you is wrong except that you are right because the Bible says so amnd yuopu seem to think that you know more about my beliefs than I do, from "talking to a friend" rather than from personal experience!
If anyone gets to talk to them please give me very best wishes to Rhiannon and Shaker! They both have my e-mail should they wish to contract me.