Some nice points there, Dicky. It is striking how on the one hand, grace means that you can't earn salvation, and doing stuff is pointless, yet on the other hand, some Christians have a kind of zeal and earnestness, which suggests lots of trying and hard work. Kind of a split mentality.
I sort of get what they mean by grace, as you find this in some areas of Buddhism, that you can't reinvent what you are, or where you are, or what you are doing. Or as some say, life is living me, not v.v. On the other hand, capitalism teaches us that we can be/do anything. Well, I like being passive, I suppose.
I like Fat Tony a lot. I bet he loves his mum's pizza.