Don't think so Gabriella, you're one who presents things clearly & well researched.
Sorry to see Rose go, she was so balanced and another one whose posts were clear. It was good to have someone not nit picky, able to see that not every issue is black or white.
I often though she'd have been a fair moderator.
Life goes on as they say.
Well I feel a bit left out not being bullied. I could do with a laugh - if only I had more time to come on here to be called an apologist for mutilation of boys by Shaker or Gordon, it would really make my day. Ok tbh it probably wouldn't make my day exactly - Shaker and Gordon are fun but not that fun - but it's always good to come on here and put the other POV across and be called barbaric and lacking humanity by people whose opinions are not really worth very much at all.
So, to be clear, from the perspective of an immigrant, I think community identity and culture are important and I think it is usually - but not always - in the best interests of children who are part of a minority culture to be brought up in that culture unless there is clear evidence of an unreasonable risk of harm. Of course there will be exceptions - children who will thrive better in a different culture to the one they are born into - but there are always exceptions.
For me to consider infant circumcision worth banning, as opposed to dying out naturally in the communities that practice it through persuasive argument, I would need to see medical professionals assess the risk of complications and death from circumcision as being unreasonably high. Medical professionals have done so in relation to FGM so clearly they have the appetite for opposing cultural practices where the level of harm warrants it. I accept the law against FGM is clearly not being enforced, given the lack of prosecutions, but I get the feeling that is changing and there is likely to be more robust prosecutions of parents and doctors who facilitate it in the UK if there is some way of getting the necessary evidence against an individual to get a successful prosecution.
I currently do not find the arguments from people on here who oppose the cultural practice of circumcision persuasive enough to legally ban it, though Prof Davey's stats could be if the rate of deaths and complications from non-therapeutic circumcision outweigh the benefits. In the meantime, while there is no consensus from the medical professionals in the UK that the medical benefits are too minimal to justify the risk of death or complications, or that the risk of harm is unacceptable enough to legally ban circumcision, I will continue to be an apologist for the barbaric, inhuman mutilation of boys by parents who are bringing them up with a particular culturally identity. I understand the argument that it is a pointless ritual - many rituals and cultural practices are pointless - and I therefore suspect that more and more people will abandon this part of their culture if the risk of complications and deaths seems too high. In countries where life is generally a lot less safe than in the UK, the risks from circumcision might seem acceptable, but in the context of the UK and its safety culture the risks will probably appear a lot more jarring to people who move here and absorb some of the cultural influences of their host country.
I don't think that in relation to this particular issue, based on the current levels of harm being expressed by the majority of people who have been circumcisied and who do not have a problem with it, that it is in the best interests of children for their parents to be legally banned from having their children participate in that aspect of their cultural heritage. Of course I feel empathy for the people who do feel harmed by being circumcised when they would rather not be, and I would support them in educating parents about the risk of psychological trauma so that parents make a more informed decision.
Rose - hope you change your mind and stay - I think this forum needs an opposing POV rather than the same old boring voices and your posts are always welcome.