Funny how Christians like shame so much. It's possible to get help for it though.
Surely the funnier (peculiar kind, not necessarily ha-ha kind) thing is why so many of them (self-described ones at any rate, and especially forum ones) are so keen on the equivalent of hitting themselves hard and repeatedly in the face with a ball-pein hammer and calling it not merely an argument or even a good point in an argument but victory.
Very odd indeed.
As for shame: Christianity has ever thrived on it. If you're so bad that God Himself tortured and killed Himself (albeit briefly) over how bad you inherently and intrinsically are - no matter what you've done or not done; no matter how old you are or indeed if you've just entered this great stage of fools
ex utero - then a word like shame really doesn't even begin to cover the case.
But then, at the same time neither do words such as arrogance and egotism. That's why the late great Hitch was so right (he usually was, beautifully almost to the point of painfully so) to characterise Christianity as the maximum of servility coupled with the maximum of solipsism.