Well...this discussion has gone into philosophical musings about perception, Buddhism and so on. All that is fine. Whether life really is all about perception or not and whether life is an illusion or not is a different discussion.
In this thread, my point about Time being merely a human construct is about a fact which we tend to miss. We have gotten used to thinking of Time as some real, eternal and abstract dimension of the universe that causes things to change. My point is that things change due to internal reasons or external influences. There is no need to resort to anything like an endless Time that causes all these things.
As I have mentioned above, changes happen by themselves.....and when we measure them or perceive them as Past, Present and Future...we create Time as a convenient tool or canvas in our minds. But in reality there is no reason to believe that here is anything like Time in existence.
Whatever Time dilation and other observations that have been made due to the effects of gravity and motion etc. will be equally valid if perceived as effects on Change rather than on Time....because Time is nothing but rate of Change.
There is however a possible benefit of thinking of it as Change rather than as Time. If we think of the effects of gravity in slowing down Time, it remains abstract.....as a strange and mysterious phenomenon.
If however we think of it as the effect on Change rather than on Time, we have the possibility of investigating the reasons for the slowing down of Change, because Change is caused by internal or external influences. So we can find out why and how these influences change due to gravity.
Just some thoughts.