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Humph Warden Bennett

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Segregated Party
« on: September 29, 2017, 02:40:38 PM »

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #1 on: September 29, 2017, 02:53:14 PM »
Nobody was forced to attend, but the fact in itself of having a sex-segregated event - parties divided by a curtain, for crying out loud - is repugnant. This is Britain in 2017. We don't act in such a manner. We're better than that.
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #2 on: September 29, 2017, 03:29:22 PM »
That is what happens in some Muslim, and some Jewish weddings.

If you don't like it, you don't have to go.

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #3 on: September 29, 2017, 03:37:46 PM »
That is what happens in some Muslim, and some Jewish weddings.
Simply repeating a fact doesn't make it acceptable.

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If you don't like it, you don't have to go.
Or how about people stop being twats?
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #4 on: September 29, 2017, 03:51:07 PM »
That is what happens in some Muslim, and some Jewish weddings.

Those weddings, though, are not state subsidised, I suspect, whereas UK universities and their activities are. Not that it's acceptable in the 21st century anyway to be cleaving to such a crass, barbaric concept.

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If you don't like it, you don't have to go.

But if you want to go, you have to accept it? Or can you, say, publicly campaign against it...

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #5 on: September 29, 2017, 04:02:59 PM »
Simply repeating a fact doesn't make it acceptable.
Or how about people stop being twats?

Were you invited?

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #6 on: September 29, 2017, 04:04:46 PM »
Those weddings, though, are not state subsidised, I suspect, whereas UK universities and their activities are. Not that it's acceptable in the 21st century anyway to be cleaving to such a crass, barbaric concept.

But if you want to go, you have to accept it? Or can you, say, publicly campaign against it...

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The function was organised by the local NUS Islamic Society. There have been many NUS Women  Only events, what is so wrong about this event?

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« Reply #7 on: September 29, 2017, 04:21:09 PM »
The function was organised by the local NUS Islamic Society. There have been many NUS Women  Only events, what is so wrong about this event?

The fact that the content of the event did not justify segregating people, but that they did it to enforce the cultural taboos of a primitive superstition.

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #8 on: September 29, 2017, 04:32:55 PM »
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #9 on: September 29, 2017, 04:39:07 PM »
Then why grumble about somebody else's party?I was not invited either.

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« Reply #10 on: September 29, 2017, 04:53:07 PM »
Then why grumble about somebody else's party?I was not invited either.

Am I required to be directly involved to note a problem, to highlight issues, to draw attention to barbaric practices? When I dial 999 and say I've just seen someone being mugged, I don't think they point out that it's not me so I shouldn't grumble.

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #11 on: September 29, 2017, 04:54:19 PM »
Then why grumble about somebody else's party?I was not invited either.
Because my circle of concern doesn't begin and end with me, not being the selfish, self-absorbed twat type.
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #12 on: September 29, 2017, 05:14:05 PM »
Because my circle of concern doesn't begin and end with me, not being the selfish, self-absorbed twat type.
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #13 on: September 29, 2017, 05:19:32 PM »
I wonder if the men and women involved are quite happy with the segregation.   If both groups are, it's not a problem.
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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #14 on: September 29, 2017, 05:21:09 PM »
I wonder if the men and women involved are quite happy with the segregation.   If both groups are, it's not a problem.

No, it still is - raising people to be accepting of this sort of behaviour doesn't make it right, it just stifles the objections.

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #15 on: September 29, 2017, 05:23:30 PM »
I wonder if the men and women involved are quite happy with the segregation.   If both groups are, it's not a problem.
NO , it highlights another problem , BRAINWASHING

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #16 on: September 29, 2017, 05:29:04 PM »
Maybe it is worth listing the reasons of why it is wrong or right? Otherwise it is just a pointless back and forth of rhetoric.
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« Reply #17 on: September 29, 2017, 05:30:55 PM »
Maybe it is worth listing the reasons of why it is wrong or right? Otherwise it is just a pointless back and forth of rhetoric.

You mean like
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...that they did it to enforce the cultural taboos of a primitive superstition

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #18 on: September 29, 2017, 05:37:17 PM »
Maybe it is worth listing the reasons of why it is wrong or right? Otherwise it is just a pointless back and forth of rhetoric.
No, its just WRONG, get over it.

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« Reply #19 on: September 29, 2017, 05:48:36 PM »
You mean like
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...that they did it to enforce the cultural taboos of a primitive superstition

But that is not a reason, it's just name calling.
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« Reply #20 on: September 29, 2017, 05:54:10 PM »
But that is not a reason, it's just name calling.

How is that not a reason that it's wrong? You might not like the reason, you might not like the phrasing, you might even disagree with the reason, but it's a reason for thinking that it's wrong to segregate people based on gender on nothing more than barbaric cultural mores.

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Re: Segregated Party
« Reply #21 on: September 29, 2017, 06:04:18 PM »


But that is not a reason, it's just name calling.
It is a reason.

However partial and fragmentary and flouted in practice, secular liberal democracies are predicated on (amongst other things of course) the equality of the sexes - that discrimination on the grounds of biological sex is irrational and unjust. This ridiculous pantomime as reported in the OP is in flagrant breach of this simple principle - the unpleasant outcome of unpleasant attitudes of an unpleasant religion.
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« Reply #22 on: September 29, 2017, 06:04:46 PM »
How is that not a reason that it's wrong? You might not like the reason, you might not like the phrasing, you might even disagree with the reason, but it's a reason for thinking that it's wrong to segregate people based on gender on nothing more than barbaric cultural mores.

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hmm ... So if someone calls an action "a barbaric cultural more" that makes it wrong?
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« Reply #23 on: September 29, 2017, 06:09:22 PM »
It is a reason.

However partial and fragmentary and flouted in practice, secular liberal democracies are predicated on (amongst other things of course) the equality of the sexes - that discrimination on the grounds of biological sex is irrational and unjust. This ridiculous pantomime as reported in the OP is in flagrant breach of this simple principle - the unpleasant outcome of unpleasant attitudes of an unpleasant religion.

It might be unjust, but need not be - depends on the reason for it. "irrational" needs a logical context to mean anything.
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« Reply #24 on: September 29, 2017, 06:14:17 PM »
It might be unjust, but need not be - depends on the reason for it. "irrational" needs a logical context to mean anything.
Very well.

The logical context of the story in the OP is that it's absurd to segregate on the grounds of sex at an annual (i.e. regular) gala dinner. Nothing about such an event invites or requires sex segregation. It's a gala dinner at an establishment supposed to be open to all which honours the equality principle I mentioned in my previous post.

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"The Equality and Human Rights Commission states that gender segregation is not permitted in any academic meetings or at events, lectures or meetings provided for students, or at events attended by members of the public or employees of the university or the students’ union."
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