Back on topic.
I think this move to include conflicts other than the two world wars in the Remembrance commemorations is a pretty new thing and mainly associated with Iraq and Afghanistan.
Perhaps my memory is playing tricks but in the 80s and 90s I don't remember there being any focus on soldiers who'd died in Northern Ireland or even the Falklands - it was about the world wars.
Someone mentioned Korea some while ago - as a forgotten war, which is probably true - but the reality is that over the years (and certainly since 1914) there have been many conflicts and many service deaths, albeit any low levels, dwarfed by the two world wars and even by the first day of the Somme.
So I've stated my view that the focus should be on the world wars - you may not agree but there is a logical argument that because of the magnitude of death they are simply incomparable with other conflicts since. However if it is to be all service deaths in all conflicts (or even all since 1914) why should the focus be so clearly only on Iraq and Afghanistan in addition to the world wars. That really seems to make no logical sense.
Interesting link to service deaths here:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom_casualties_of_warWorth noting that there were more than twice as many deaths of British service personnel in a completely forgotten Afghan war between 1919 and 1921 as there have been since 2001 in the recent one. Likewise far more died in Iraq in the 1920 conflict than in the 2003 war, yet the former I suspect is pretty well completely forgotten.
Either we give all equal billing (but we don't) or we accept that certain conflicts are so different to all the others that they deserve specific commemoration - and the only two that really stand out since 1914 are, of course, the world wars.