Please explain what you mean by that remark?
OK: I don't claim to know the mind of Christ, but, from ther Gospwel - if we are to accept it (and I do):
Jesus, on the Cross, had already surrrendered the care of His mother into the hands of John.
Thay was a bit out of the norm - becayse the child was responsible for the vare of a widowed mother in His day; His brothers (Joseph's sons, one of them would become the leader of the Jerusalem Church in time - were still arounf, but He chose John - perhaps because John was the only one who turned up.
That made Johm legally responsible for Mary's caere in Jewish law, tradition and custom - in eggect, CHrist was surrendering his relationship with his mother.
He knew what was ahead of Him, so in his agony, He dtill had time to get things done and dusted before the end-and the beginning.