just answer in your own words, why and how would make and female of a species develop at the same time in the same place?
It's not necessary for that to have happened - as you would know if you'd have been arsed to read
#37 (even if you didn't follow the link).
You know
Orgel's Second Rule states that "evolution is cleverer than you are." - which is meant to mean, not that evolution is actually clever, but that people who can't see how evolution could have done something are lacking imagination.
It seems that fundie evolution deniers are particularly lacking in imagination - and also the ability to do internet searches, follow links, or even read posted answers.