Even if universalists are right, and everyone eventually makes it to heaven (I'm not saying that you're a universalist - I don't know your position on that), the fact remains that in this life there is a hell of a lot of undeserved suffering. If, as evanjellykules like to tell us, no amount of good works on our part can atone for our sin, the flip side of that is that no amount of happiness in the afterlife can atone for our suffering in this.
I think you have to forget about an omnipotent God if you're going to hang on to the idea of a really-existing God: very powerful, even the most powerful agent in the universe, maybe, but the idea of omnipotence as usually understood is not in the bible, and I think comes from Greek philosophy. In that case, this world, with all its suffering and sin, is perhaps as good as God can make it. Matter is intractable stuff, and even God can't do what God wants with it. Just as humans have free-will, which led to sin, maybe all matter has something akin to free-will. This, at any rate, is what I tell myself when I try to believe in a really-existing God.
Great post and I hope to discuss all the points you raise with you.
On first reading this example of equivalence caught my eye:
If, as evanjellykules like to tell us, no amount of good works on our part can atone for our sin, the flip side of that is that no amount of happiness in the afterlife can atone for our suffering in this.
It is a fertile idea but I can't quite help feeling that there is something not quite right with it.
We can certainly make restoration and restitution with people but does that fully atone for sin in its fullest sense?
I'm not sure.
I'm probably more where you are since I'm not taken with the greek or antitheist(stenger) notions of omni this or that preferring the Anselmian inference of God as most, best or highest if anything.
I think we are damn close on God allowing the unconscious part of the universe freedom but probably differ a wee bit between God's inability and God's unwillingness and which is more benevolent.