As my friend, Arthur Kent, said, the list Paul gives for the charisma is not finite.
Sometimes, admin, or preaching...or cleaning, washing, supervising, etc, are every bit as important in advancing the Kingdom as healing, knowledge, or, dare I say it, tongues?
I don't know why you have not received them...maybe it's becausee you don't need them?
I wasn't looking for the 'filling of the Spirit'.
God, however,had other ideas.
Who said I didn't receive them? I spoke in tongues - i.e. gabbled gobbledegook - with the best of them, and occasionally "interpreted" and "prophesied" as well, though at least I avoided the ridiculous 17th-century-English-pastiche. Miracles and healings, though, never happened, though we managed to convince ourselves that they did - usually invisible, self-diagnosed ailments. I did witness one example of "Chinese whispers" exaggeration of a supposed healing: a teenager at the church suffered a serious injury in a game of football, and it was expected that he'd have to spend weeks lying flat on his back to avoid a detached retina. He was, of course, prayed for, and in the event his recovery was unexpectedly quick, and he suffered no permanent ill-effects. Well, you can attribute that to the prayer if you like, and I wouldn't necessarily even disagree, but some time later, I heard a particularly hysterical and stupid female member of the congregation tell my then wife that the boy had been blinded, and told he'd be blind for life, but he'd been prayed for and had instantly received his sight! Complete bollocks, as I knew, but the daft old biddy was obviously completely sincere. That case was the only example that could possibly be attributed to prayer - and then doubtfully.
I eventually left that church, and for almost exactly a year renounced Christianity and joined what was then called the British Humanist Association, because I could no longer avoid seeing the mis-match between the claims and the reality. I eventualy came back to liberal, Tillichian Christianity, and started going to another church, but it was charismatic evangelicalism which destroyed my faith, and liberal Christianity which restored it, contrary to what the happy-clappys like to claim.