But why do you say we have no evidence?! All the things that we have been discussing on this thread and elsewhere, ideas of consciousness and subjectivity, Hoffman's ideas etc....are some of the reasons to believe that our life is like a VR game.
Subjectivity is not evidence of a VR style existence, it's evidence of an absence of absolute knowledge.
The point of this 'VR game' is to change and develop our consciousness.
And you base this 'conclusion' on what, exactly? That we, generally, change and develop our consciousness over time is not evidence that this is somehow 'the point' of life.
Spirituality is essentially about experiencing the world through different bodies, changing our identity and becoming free finally.
See, I thought that was what Dungeons and Dragons was about - don't get me wrong, I love D&D, but I understand that it's a hobby, not some hidden underlying mystery of reality.
We don't know that it is a game till the very last stage....which is what the illusion is all about.
If that's the case, how do you know now?
We think we are doing certain things for certain reasons (the carrot) while all the time something else is happening beneath the surface.
I think, here, is part of where you misunderstand certainly my take on things, and presumably a number of others, too: I don't think we do things for an overarcing purpose or reason, I don't think there's an underlying point to it all, I don't think there's an ultimate goal.
At the last stage the illusion breaks, we realize the truth and our identity shifts.
Well, no, at the last our identity stops.
https://tsriramrao.wordpress.com/2019/11/04/reality/
I think you mischaracterise the scientific/materialist view, here - I'm not suggesting maliciously - inasmuch as you think science considers there to be two realities, somehow. There aren't, there is the objective reality, and there are a range of subjective partial understandings of that reality (which are, at the same time, part of that reality). We operate, in a lot of instances, as though our subjective partial understanding were complete and accurate, but we appreciate that there are times when that's not appropriate (and, probably, times when we don't appreciate that it isn't, too).
One of those times is the idea of 'scientific fact'. We operate as though most of what science has solidly demonstrated (evolution, gravitational effects, theory of electromagnetism etc.) were absolute truth, but when pressed a good scientist will concede that scientific enquiry only ever leads to provisional understandings. It only takes one solid piece of contrasting evidence to undermine even the most fundamental understanding we have from science, that's the nature of a system that rests on experiential enquiry. There is validity to be found in common experience, even more validity when that experience is moderated with non-subjective measuring equipment, but it's always - at least technically - provisional.
You suggest that our 'inner world' does not impact on the larger reality on its own, only inasmuch as it is expressed by us - the thing is, though, that 'inner world' and our thinking process that edits which parts of it will be let out in which scenarios, and those scenarios themselves, are all part of that larger reality - that's reality playing out. There isn't a divide there, our inner workings are one more manifestation of the innumerable sideshows and feedbacks and cause and effect chains that are part of the reality of which we have a subjective understanding. There is no more nor less mystery in why one of us cries at a funeral whilst another laughs than there is in why one leaf gets pulled under in a stream whilst another rushes to the sea.
You also suggest that we think the world is somehow immune to our activities, that we play out against a background that has a scheme that will continue regardless of us; partially the case (for me, at least) inasmuch as I think the world will play out in an inevitable pattern based upon where it started. However, we aren't superimposed over that pattern, we are an intrinsic part of it - some of the things that happen don't happen despite our presence, they don't happen because of our presence, but they do happen through our presence, just as our presence happens because of things that came before. We aren't outside reality subjectively looking in like it was a television show, we are inside the machine. We are, to quote an old TV show 'the universe made manifest... stardust seeking to understand itself'
And so we return to the tree - and here is where our interpretation of the broader question manifests in this example. You suggest that sound is not the compression waves in the air, it's our subjective impression of those compressions. Our understanding of sound is through our senses, but the phenomenon that we experience is the sound, that's what we call those compression waves, but we call them that whether we're there or not, that's how physics works. Reality is objective, that is sound - if we're there, we experience the sound, if we're not there we don't, but it's not dependent upon is, it's objective; our subjective appreciation of it is dependent upon us being there, but that doesn't 'create' sound, that allows for the experience of the sound.
If we put our hand on the tree itself, there is a tree - we feel the tree. If we aren't there, there's still a tree to fall, no-one questions that - sound is the same. Sound is a thing, and we've named that thing BASED ON our experience of it, but it's the thing that we've named, not the experience.
O.