An important part of this is, is the judgment that the pot, a metaphor for the relationship with God is broken.
When the relationship between parent and child breaks down, do you blame the child?
This would remove the option of choosing to be or remain in relation to God.
No, the default could be 'you are saved, unless you do something grotesque and earn punishment in your own right'. You still have the option, but the starting position is not 'punishment for someone else's actions'.
Whatever damage Adam did to our relationship with God Christ has overturned.
In what way? We were judged and liable for punishment for someone else's actions before Jesus, and we still are now... what's changed?
What remains is the choice to be or not be with God.
And, again, I'll point out that such a 'choice' isn't really a choice, it's a threat.
You aren't required to answer for Adams sins or his breaking of the relationship.
You might want to tell pretty much every Christian denomination in history that, because I'm pretty sure Adam and the fall of man leading to our inherently sinful nature is a pretty big part of pretty much all the doctrine.
All you have in regard to God are your own actions and whether you choose or reject him.
And his threats. And his judgement of me based on someone else's activities. And his apparent rejection of any responsibility for his failings in the Garden of Eden. Apart from that, all I have are my own actions (which according to some denominations make no difference, as I recall - Calvinism?) .
O.