Refusal to get into a serious discussion about religion, Rather being condescending and sarcastic toward to religious people I considered as automatically odd and weird, Turning tv and radio programmes about religion off although that was a trait I picked up from my parents. Patronising all bookshops apart from, yes you'ved guessed it christian bookshops was my kind of life modus. When I became aware of God's real presence and his call I tried to blot it out but couldn't eventually in all honesty.
What do you consider as a serious discussion?
Forums are not really the place for polite and affirming conversations but we seem to have had many impolite serious discussions on here. If you post on an online debate forum, isn't there an expectation for someone else to robustly challenge your view?
If we make a positive claim on a debate forum that God exists or God is a delusion, presumably we would expect people to ask why we believe that. And in any ensuing discussion, people who don't share a particular belief in/ agree with the positive claim made would say it sounds nonsensical and ask for evidence to support the claim. I agree that ad homs are pointless but asking for evidence is fair.
I remember in the threads about Meghan and Harry I said they were skipping town and heading to the US to not just make money but to have more control over their money and activities without being told what to do or say by palace officials. I was asked for evidence that their actions were motivated by money to further their ambitions rather than because they were craving privacy - I did not have any and I could not be bothered to justify my opinion by writing an analysis on those two. I was just giving my opinion on how I read the situation from the various media reports. I did not mind that people dismissed my opinions as I did not have any evidence for them. Now it turns out that they had been in talks with various streaming companies and were keen to sign on the dotted line sooner rather than later, which they couldn't do while being working royals in London.
I personally don't see that it's particularly out of place on a debate forum for some posters to challenge claims with ridicule or condescension, if the points made are thought-provoking and not ad homs. It's nicer if ridicule and condescension are not involved and probably more effective but everyone's different and if it's a poster's online personality to ridicule at the end of the day it's online - any time people are finding it too frustrating or have had enough they can leave for a while and come back later.