yet there are those to whom this seems vital at the end of thier lives.
There are plenty of things that individuals might consider vital at the end of their lives, I imagine the most common being surrounded by family and perhaps friends. But there are circumstances where this cannot be possible due to either the requirements for medical professionals to do their work or for police to secure a crime scene. You cannot take a view where one persons
vital is considered more worthy than another person's
vital, particularly if the difference is based on belief as that would run counter to equalities legislation.
I think their wishes should be taken into consideration, maybe not as a primary concern, but not dismissed out of hand.
True, but so should other reasonable end of life requests, such as allowing family to be present. The point is that there are circumstances where allowing either family or a priest would not be appropriate, due to the points above. So suggesting that allowing a priest somehow is acceptable but not a close member of the family seems deeply inappropriate to me.
But of course where there are no such concerns both are appropriate, with the caveat that it should be the choice of the dying person to have last rites, not a decision dictated by a priest.