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[Gordon]

But you are suggesting some significant difference between you and me there, aren't you Gordon?

You are a theist and I am not: no doubt there may be other differences between us (for example, on the matter of our facial hair), but whether these qualify as 'significant' is another matter entirely.

[ProfessorDavey]

You are a theist and I am not: no doubt there may be other differences between us (for example, on the matter of our facial hair), but whether these qualify as 'significant' is another matter entirely.

Looking at this discussion I think the key is that life tends to be fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled when we live it as our authentic selves. So someone who genuinely believes in god will probably find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the god they believe in. But the flips side is also true, someone who does not believe in god will find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the notion that they don't believe in god.

You are the former and I am the latter and my understanding of our respective life journeys is that as a teenager and young adult you dabbled in atheism but subsequently came to realise that the authentic Vlad was a person who believed in god. My journey was the reverse - as a teenager and young adult I dabbled in theism (really tried to believe in god, perhaps occasionally thought I did, but it wasn't true) - I came to realise that the authentic me is a person who doesn't believe in god.

[Gonnagle]

Looking at this discussion I think the key is that life tends to be fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled when we live it as our authentic selves. So someone who genuinely believes in god will probably find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the god they believe in. But the flips his also true, someone who does not believe in god will find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the notion that they don't believe in god.

You are the former and I am the latter and my understanding of our respective life journeys is that as a teenager and young adult you dabbled in atheism but subsequently came to realise that the authentic Vlad was a person who believed in god. My journey was the reverse - as a teenager and young adult you dabbled in theism (really tried to believe in god, perhaps occasionally thought I did, but it wasn't true) - I came to realise that the authentic me is a person who doesn't believe in god.

Dear Prof,
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The authentic person, now that has me thinking, opens up a whole new meaning 🎵gillette the best a man can geeettt 🎶 Freuds superego, The higher truth, the best a man can be, the greatest virtues.
The concept of "virtue" has deep roots in ancient Greek and Roman philosophy, evolving from ideas of excellence and character development, and later influencing Christian theology and ethics.
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Ancient Roots:
Ancient Greece:
The concept of "virtue" (ἀρετή/arete) in ancient Greek philosophy centered on the idea of excellence or flourishing, encompassing not just moral qualities but also excellence in any skill or function.
Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle:
These philosophers explored the nature of virtue and its role in achieving a good life, with Aristotle's "Nicomachean Ethics" being a foundational text on virtue ethics.
Stoicism:
The Stoic school of philosophy emphasized the importance of living in accordance with virtue, focusing on self-control, wisdom, and justice.
Ancient Rome:
The Romans adopted the concept of "virtus" (derived from "vir," meaning man), which encompassed manly strength, courage, and moral excellence.
Plato:
Plato discussed the four cardinal virtues – wisdom, justice, fortitude, and temperance – in his Republic.
Cicero:
Cicero, a Roman philosopher, also discussed these virtues and their importance.
Medieval and Early Modern Periods:
Christian Theology:
Christian theologians, including St. Augustine and St. Thomas Aquinas, incorporated the concept of virtue into their theological frameworks, developing ideas of theological virtues (faith, hope, and charity) and cardinal virtues.
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The concept of the seven deadly sins (pride, envy, wrath, sloth, greed, gluttony, and lust) emerged as the opposite of virtues, representing vices that hinder spiritual growth.
Medieval Moral Literature:
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Enlightenment:
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I quite like this new AI thingy but it makes you lazy, I much prefer a good book.

Gonnagle.

[Nearly Sane]

Looking at this discussion I think the key is that life tends to be fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled when we live it as our authentic selves. So someone who genuinely believes in god will probably find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the god they believe in. But the flips side is also true, someone who does not believe in god will find life fuller and deeper and more ethically fulfilled if they align their morality etc with the notion that they don't believe in god.

You are the former and I am the latter and my understanding of our respective life journeys is that as a teenager and young adult you dabbled in atheism but subsequently came to realise that the authentic Vlad was a person who believed in god. My journey was the reverse - as a teenager and young adult I dabbled in theism (really tried to believe in god, perhaps occasionally thought I did, but it wasn't true) - I came to realise that the authentic me is a person who doesn't believe in god.

Sorry what sort of bollocks is 'authentic selves'?

[ProfessorDavey]

Sorry what sort of bollocks is 'authentic selves'?

Oh nice neutral comment there NS.

Here is a suggestion, which seems to fit the bill:

Being your authentic self means expressing your genuine thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, aligning with your core values and personality, regardless of external pressures or expectations. It's about being true to who you are at your deepest level.

So as an example someone who is gay would be bring their authentic self is they recognised that to be the case and lived there life accordingly, rather than hiding it and pretending to be heterosexual (as was often the case in decades past.

For the purposes of this discussion we are talking about people who genuinely do or do not believe in god - so in this case their authentic selves would be someone whose thoughts, feelings and behaviours etc were based on a recognition of and alignment with that theism/atheism, rather than someone trying to shoehorn their own beliefs into some expected societal pressure to act as if god existed (or did not exist).

Seems a pretty straightforward concept to me. Neither rocket science, nor bollocks NS.

[Nearly Sane]

Oh nice neutral comment there NS.

Here is a suggestion, which seems to fit the bill:

Being your authentic self means expressing your genuine thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, aligning with your core values and personality, regardless of external pressures or expectations. It's about being true to who you are at your deepest level.

So as an example someone who is gay would be bring their authentic self is they recognised that to be the case and lived there life accordingly, rather than hiding it and pretending to be heterosexual (as was often the case in decades past.

For the purposes of this discussion we are talking about people who genuinely do or do not believe in god - so in this case their authentic selves would be someone whose thoughts, feelings and behaviours etc were based on a recognition of and alignment with that theism/atheism, rather than someone trying to shoehorn their own beliefs into some expected societal pressure to act as if god existed (or did not exist).

Seems a pretty straightforward concept to me. Neither rocket science, nor bollocks NS.

Except it presupposes as you have used it here that you and Vkad were choosing to go against some absolute in your personality and not simply expressing it. It plays around with the idea of soul. It also seems to imply that changing your mind is means you either were not being your 'authentic self' or have stopped being your 'authentic self'.

[ProfessorDavey]

Except it presupposes as you have used it here that you and Vkad were choosing to go against some absolute in your personality and not simply expressing it. It plays around with the idea of soul. It also seems to imply that changing your mind is means you either were not being your 'authentic self' or have stopped being your 'authentic self'.

Nope - I don't think it means that at all. It isn't just about changing your mind. It is about something much more fundamental.

I think my analogy of sexuality is highly relevant - society, certainly from when I was young, expected people to be heterosexual, so plenty of gay people grew up with that expectation - thinking or pretending to be straight when all along they weren't. When someone 'came out' in that context it wasn't because they have changed their mind about their sexuality, it was because they had become able to recognise and publicly express that they were gay rather than pretending that they weren't.

The notion of the authentic self is about someone feeling about to express their true self rather than feeling they have to pretend to be someone they aren't, due to societal and other pressures.

[Nearly Sane]

Nope - I don't think it means that at all. It isn't just about changing your mind. It is about something much more fundamental.

I think my analogy of sexuality is highly relevant - society, certainly from when I was young, expected people to be heterosexual, so plenty of gay people grew up with that expectation - thinking or pretending to be straight when all along they weren't. When someone 'came out' in that context it wasn't because they have changed their mind about their sexuality, it was because they had become able to recognise and publicly express that they were gay rather than pretending that they weren't.

The notion of the authentic self is about someone feeling about to express their true self rather than feeling they have to pretend to be someone they aren't, due to societal and other pressures.

Are you honestly suggesting sexuality is analogous to belief in gods here, and that Vlad was being an atheist because of societal pressures, denying his 'true nature', and that people are either theists, atheist or bitheist by some inherent preference?

[ProfessorDavey]

Except it presupposes as you have used it here that you and Vkad were choosing to go against some absolute in your personality and not simply expressing it.

I can't speak for Vlad, but I can speak for myself and yes that is exactly how it was.

From a pretty young age I don't think I ever really believed in god of the religious claims, but because of the prevailing society at the time I kind of went along with the notion that god existed and that this god was the christian god. But I was pretending to believe when really deep down I know I didn't and never really had.

This is why I tend to talk about recognising that I was atheist, rather than becoming an atheist as it makes it clear that I don't think I ever believed even when I claimed to have done - I was just pretending. I never changed my mind about believing in god (as I don't think I ever really did) but I did come to recognise that I was an atheist and (to return to the term) as that point started to live life as my authentic self rather than one who due to societal pressures felt I should indicate that I believed in something that actually I didn't.

Again, not really a hard concept.

[Nearly Sane]

I can't speak for Vlad, but I can speak for myself and yes that is exactly how it was.

From a pretty young age I don't think I ever really believed in god of the religious claims, but because of the prevailing society at the time I kind of went along with the notion that god existed and that this god was the christian god. But I was pretending to believe when really deep down I know I didn't and never really had.

This is why I tend to talk about recognising that I was atheist, rather than becoming an atheist as it makes it clear that I don't think I ever believed even when I claimed to have done - I was just pretending. I never changed my mind about believing in god (as I don't think I ever really did) but I did come to recognise that I was an atheist and (to return to the term) as that point started to live life as my authentic self rather than one who due to societal pressures felt I should indicate that I believed in something that actually I didn't.

Again, not really a hard concept.

I didn't say it was hard, I said it was bollocks. I get that there might be times when you are in a society that doesn't accept certain beliefs as as valid as others, and that you might go along for the sake of acceptance. But the idea of 'authentic self' goes beyond that and supposes that your belief is inherently fixed. You might as well argue that political beliefs are fixed.

[ProfessorDavey]

I didn't say it was hard, I said it was bollocks.

But it isn't bollocks.

I get that there might be times when you are in a society that doesn't accept certain beliefs as as valid as others, and that you might go along for the sake of acceptance. But the idea of 'authentic self' goes beyond that and supposes that your belief is inherently fixed. You might as well argue that political beliefs are fixed.

Again you are spectacularly (or deliberately) missing the point.

Being your authentic self is about accepting your genuine thoughts, feelings, and behaviours rather than pretending that they are something different. It doesn't indicate in the slightest that your genuine thoughts, feelings etc cannot change over time, merely that you accept those and don't pretend to be otherwise.

So let's try another (rather more mundane) analogy - imagine I hate opera, but pretend I love it (because I regularly am expected to go to opera with real aficionados and want to fit in). If that were the case in a somewhat trivial respect I wouldn't be expressing my authentic self. However over time (and exposure) perhaps I would genuinely come to appreciate and love opera, in which case I would have changed my mind and my expressing my love for opera wouldn't be pretending so would reflect my authentic self.

Now I know this is a trivial example when compared to belief in god or sexuality.

But my own experience is that I never really changed my mind about believing in god - I never really did when I had any kind of genuine capacity to think about it, even though for a while I kind of kidded myself that I did believe. I didn't change my mind - I moved from not being the authentic me (in relation to god) to being the authentic me.

Now I'm not gay, but I think that many gay people recognise that they were always gay, even if they spent quite a bit of time kidding themselves that they weren't (hence we talk about people 'coming out' not 'changing their mind') - so in that case when pretending not to be gay that person (in relation to their sexuality) they would not be being their authentic self, but having come out they would be being their authentic self.

But none of that is to say that your authentic self is constant, fixed and cannot change, but that how you express your beliefs, feelings etc is genuine and not pretending to be something you aren't.

Again, not rocket science and not bollocks.

[The Accountant, OBE, KC]

Well I cannot speak for all atheists (and nor can you speak for all christians).

But my experience is exactly the opposite. I became interested in, recognised the importance of and really started to take notice of ethics/morality from the point where I recognised I was atheist. Prior to that, in my nominal 'I guess there a god and I guess that god is the christian god because that's what my societal upbringing told me' morality and ethics were something largely outsourced - something that you were told what to do and not do by others on the basis of some rule book, based on some nominal god. Something that wasn't really personally about me, nor something that I felt I had personal responsibility for.

That all changed when I came to recognise that I did not believe in god - no longer could I just leave this to others and their rules and their books.

Presumably atheists gets their morals from ideas that were communicated through books too. 

Nope I had a personal responsibility to determine what I considered to be right and wrong and a personal responsibility to uphold my own moral conscience. In a way this was really a bit scary - suddenly I had to do some work on the ethics, rather than outsourcing. And that's what I did - from that point onwards (and continuing to this day) I have had a deep personal and professional interest in ethics. I doubt that would have happened had I not become an atheist.


This atheist would counter - that tolerance, calmness etc are better in me since accepting that I did not believe in god.

I can't speak for all theists, but my observation is that all the theists I have encountered seem to spend quite a lot of time determining what they consider to be right or wrong and upholding their personal moral conscience, regardless of what some religious rule book says or someone else says. Sometimes theists disagree with what they think their religious books are saying and sometimes they aren't sure how to interpret their books so they don't make any decisions and just think about it for a while or research the different, often opposing,  viewpoints on an issue when they have time.

People (both theists and atheists) may often give into their desires because they have expended all their will-power for the day (or the time being) in some other area of their life.

The varied interpretations of religious rules by theists looks very much like personal responsibility to me, though their rule book might have sparked a train of thought. 

Sometimes my 'authentic' self tells myself to stop worrying about which of my multiple opposing desires is my 'authentic' one and just get on with something a bit more productive. That was actually one of the reasons I stopped trying to convince theists to become atheists - when I started hanging around with some very productive theists.

[Gonnagle]

Dear Gabriella,

Presumably atheists gets their morals from ideas that were communicated through books too. 

I can't speak for all theists, but my observation is that all the theists I have encountered seem to spend quite a lot of time determining what they consider to be right or wrong and upholding their personal moral conscience, regardless of what some religious rule book says or someone else says. Sometimes theists disagree with what they think their religious books are saying and sometimes they aren't sure how to interpret their books so they don't make any decisions and just think about it for a while or research the different, often opposing,  viewpoints on an issue when they have time.

Correct.

People (both theists and atheists) may often give into their desires because they have expended all their will-power for the day (or the time being) in some other area of their life.

The varied interpretations of religious rules by theists looks very much like personal responsibility to me, though their rule book might have sparked a train of thought. 


Correct again.

Sometimes my 'authentic' self tells myself to stop worrying about which of my multiple opposing desires is my 'authentic' one and just get on with something a bit more productive.

Correct once again.
That was actually one of the reasons I stopped trying to convince theists to become atheists - when I started hanging around with some very productive theists.

Well I don't know about that one and please remember it is just my personal opinion, but theists seem to me pretty boring ( not you ) whilst Atheists bring out in me the "oh you bloody well think so side of me" and they seem to me to try just that wee bit harder bless their wee cotton socks

Gonnagle.

[The Accountant, OBE, KC]

Dear Gabriella,

Well I don't know about that one and please remember it is just my personal opinion, but theists seem to me pretty boring ( not you ) whilst Atheists bring out in me the "oh you bloody well think so side of me" and they seem to me to try just that wee bit harder bless their wee cotton socks

Gonnagle.

I agree - theists seemed pretty boring to me too on the whole (not you) until I finally met some theists who weren't boring. They seemed as mad as me - the only slight difference in our insanity was they believed in a god and I didn't at the time.   

[Gonnagle]

I agree - theists seemed pretty boring to me too on the whole (not you) until I finally met some theists who weren't boring. They seemed as mad as me - the only slight difference in our insanity was they believed in a god and I didn't at the time.

Dear Gabriella,

Oh no!! I was an Atheist but I'm alright now The Insanity of Theism, now that's a book Wonder if old Sane will mind me changing my moniker to Nearlysane2 and yes I have huge smile on my face 😀 goodnight Gabriella and may your God go with you

Gonnagle.

[Nearly Sane]

Dear Gabriella,

Oh no!! I was an Atheist but I'm alright now The Insanity of Theism, now that's a book Wonder if old Sane will mind me changing my moniker to Nearlysane2 and yes I have huge smile on my face 😀 goodnight Gabriella and may your God go with you

Gonnagle.

I'd be honoured. After all there ain't no sanity clause